What has worked to improve your sex drive?

I’m struggling here, gals. I have never been a vixen, but since having my kids, my sex drive has been insanely low. I’ve been married to my high school sweetheart for almost 7 years, and we’ve been together 13 years. He’s an amazing partner- respectful, helpful, loving. I truly don’t have any complaints about him. We have a great relationship. The only thing that is ever an issue is my sex drive. We fight on and off about it, but for the most part, he’s very tolerant. I just very rarely have the urge, and sometimes when we do, I just don’t want to be touched. I think about it constantly and try to build myself up to get excited about it, but pretty much always avoid it.

I don’t know what’s wrong with me and I just want to want to have sex and make both of us happy. My body went back to normal quickly after my babies, my kids sleep peacefully every night in their own beds, and I’m not completely exhausted. Just plainly uninterested in sex and it always feels like a chore. I’ve been on the pill, off the pill, currently have Mirena.

Have any of you found ANYTHING that boosted your sex drive? Help!