Need help 💦

I can’t seem to 💦 unless i’m pleasuring myself anymore..... if anyone has any tips of how to get off with my man i’d appreciate that... I really want to be able to have that experience with him. He skips for play a lot and if he does eat me out or finger me it’s for 2 seconds.... other times he goes right to eating me out skipping kissing and warm up. Need any advice!