Please I need ur opinions

Hi all. My husband does not seem to understand why I am upset about a few things, and I want your opinions on them. My husband does not see anything wrong with anything that he does, so maybe reading other people’s thoughts would make him see reasons.

1) is it right that my husband calls my family to complain about me every single time that we have an argument?

2) should you directly or indirectly call your wife fat, and regularly emotionally bully her about her weight gain? A woman who gave you two kids and just had a baby 7 months ago?

3) is it right to confidently pick up a fight a day or few days before a special celebration for your wife? For example, her birthday, Valentine’s Day, Mother’s Day, etc and not wish celebrate her on these days, not even saying a happy birthday?

4) am I wrong to ask for changes, and am I rude because I say things that my husband does that I do not like?

5) is it right to not be there during the birth of your child because you were sleeping, and only a message saying “lovely” AFTER your baby has been born and your wife sent you a picture? Not even a phone call to check up on her, and you say that it was because you were sleepy?

6) is it right for your mother-in-law to remind and practically beg you to take food and other provisions to your wife AFTER the birth of your child?

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