Hey guys, I need your opinion on this. My husband's love language is physical touch and I havent really figured what mine is but it definitely isn't physical touch. He gets upset when I can't offer that to him. I think my dislike of not liking physical touch stems from some trauma in my past with men. I have BPD and depression so when we argue im totally disconnected from myself. I have no feelings good or bad. Sometimes I can say things without really thinking about how the other person is feeling. It feels like someone else is controlling my decisions and im just the vessel for it. During sex sometimes I disconnect from myself and just let it happen. If im emotionally there I just get flashbacks so I try not to engage as much. Am I wrong for doing so?