So my husband and I got married last June and we were together for 4 years before that. We met in 9th grade and dated all through high school and got Married at 18. 6 months after we got married I found out I was pregnant and we were both so so excited. It’s something we’ve talked about forever. Lately he’s been kinda struggling with feeling like he’s going to lose his freedom. (I totally get where he is coming from because we are so young). He’s told me that he is so excited to have this baby and he doesn’t want me to think he’s not but it’s still super challenging working though it all. He is kinda upset because he said he wanted more time with me and I totally understand that! Both of us were very aware that I could get pregnant but we obviously didn’t know everything that goes along with pregnancy. (Like all the emotions and things)

I guess I’m more just venting about it. I’m not upset about him having these feeling at all. I’ve felt them too. I just think in ways it’s harder for him because guys always seem to be a little behind on growing up.

I’m extremely thankful for him. I’m honestly just so thankful that he felt comfortable enough I talk to me about it. He told me that we are going to get through this just like we have everything else.