So I usually do most of the cooking and my bf never washes the pots and pans. He’ll just wash whatever is in the sink (which is usually 2-3 things since I wash dishes in between cooking to prevent from a pile up) and then our plates. But whatever’s left on the stove or counters, he just leaves. At first it was whatever but now it’s getting a little annoying. He’ll clean them when I complain but it’s like how many times do I have to “complain”. We both have full time jobs and are tired from work, the least u could do is clean all the dishes after I’ve done prepped and cooked after my long day of work too