Late 30s-40s ttc?

A bit of background.

We’ve been ttc from 2004-2011. We stopped after our daughter’s adoption in late 2012. We briefly tried again in 2017, but nothing. Now, our baby girl is 9 and wanting siblings while hubby wants a son and I want triplets.

We’ve been married for 17 years. I miscarried in 2093 was diagnosed with PCOS in 2004 . Of course, my weight went roller coaster crazy between 2005-2010 and 2012-current.

My body is definitely changing. I used to want it AlL the time. Now, I just want to sleep.

I’m seeing a dr that specializes in trying to normalize cycles before doing <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a> (I wish I would’ve found him 7 years ago). We’re going to give this a go for six months before moving into <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a>.

Is anyone else in the same or similar situation?