Sleeping

Help! My little one just turned one and he hasn’t been sleeping throughout the night like he usually does. He wakes at least 3-4 times throughout the night and cries till I get up and get him. I’ve tried to lay him back down and patting him. I e tried holding him to smooth him then put him back down and he bounces right back up. He does the same thing with nap time. He will wine in my arms and rub his eyes and face but will not sleep unless I physically go lay with him for a bit and then transfer him to his crib. He use to fall asleep by himself. I did take his paci away recently and I know that contributes to it but even before that he started this. (Took the paci cause he got a lot of his teeth at an early age and dentist said it’s starting to reposition his teeth) my husband works 4am-2pm so our bedtime is 8:30/9 . We live in a one bedroom apartment so we share a room. The cry it out method does not work all the time. I’ll let him cry and only go in to comfort him and lay him back down. It works sometimes but for the most part it doesn’t for us. Tips/advice please. My 1st son was such a breeze and my second is so much different lol help a tired momma TIA