I’ve been with my boyfriend for 3 years and were very open with each other. We communicate as best as we can with one another when something is bothering the other person. The other day, I found out that he had an entire instagram account dedicated to following only instagram models. I was furious when I found out - for multiple reasons. 1. I’m a big girl, and I was really upset to see my boyfriend looking at women who look nothing like me, 2. He hid it from me, 3. He prides himself on not following or liking any other girls photos. The fact that he did this and lied about liking the photos really set me off. I asked why he had it and he said, “porn got boring.”

I’m not one to believe porn is cheating or wrong in anyway - it’s natural to watch it and I don’t mind that. I just want to know if I’m wrong for feeling the way I do. Or maybe I’m wrong for getting angry with him. Am I overreacting?