Anger Issues

Hello everyone! Got a question for y’all. So my husband and I had an argument yesterday which was about the kids, you know he say she say. All I was saying is before you punish one get to the bottom of the situation.Now he’s not speaking to me at all! This isn’t nothing new, but I was wondering if I was the only one that goes through this??? He gets mad for a century, even if it’s not really serious. And I don’t know how to handle him but I’ve been doing good ignoring him this time around.