Hey girls ! I’m 21 and have a one year old and I’m pregnant with my second. Neither were planned they were actually the result of failed plan B lol. But of course I’m still happy and love them to death. Anyway I’ve always been very mature for my age my boyfriend is 26 and well my cousin turned 21 yesterday and she went bar hopping and was telling me all about it. And it made me very sad that I won’t have that. I had fun with parties for a summer after I graduated and grew out of it. But I was pregnant for my 21st and will be pregnant for my 22nd. No judgement for the moms that do go out but I just can’t see myself going out to bars with two kids at home and it makes me feel like my youth is over. And I’m actually at work crying in the restroom lol these dang hormones. But does any other mom relate ?