Should you tell your partner about your fetishes?

Question

So my partner and I have been together for almost 6 years. We’re engaged. Have a good sex life. 
Recently I went onto our shared laptop and I guess he had forgotten to close the internet tab... long story short, he is into morbidly obese porn and appears to have a ‘feeder/fat’ fetish. This creeped me out a bit as he has always insisted on buying me lots of food, and I never want to feel like he’s wasted money so I always eat it. And I have gained quite a bit of weight since we met. I really don’t want to end up like the women in the videos he was watching - but if feels like he may be trying to do it to me?? Idk, should he have discussed this with me or not??

Answer

It may not be something he's doing completely consciously to you- and it's not abnormal to gain weight in relationships. 
People are not obligated to talk about their fetish's unless they are ready and comfortable doing so- with their partner or anyone else. 
He shouldn't be imposing anything weird upon you, though, either. And it's okay to confirm you aren't into gaining weight on purpose at least.

Answer

So you think he should’ve told you about his fat fetish?  Maybe he doesn’t he know it’s a fetish but just thinks he’s attracted to larger women or thinks watching a woman eat is sexy which ya know it can be, as many things we do are sexy 😊. Anyway girl as long as he’s not trying to make you fat or as long as you know what’s up and don’t let him make you fatter than you wanna be, it should all work out. Better than having a guy always wanting you to go to the gym and eat nothing but celery sticks.

Should you tell your partner about your fetishes?

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