Feeling suffocated by in laws

Back story, my daughter and I have lived with my boyfriends family since my baby was born. My boyfriend already had a job out of state the first 7 months of our daughters life. He got laid off due to covid, so he ended up moving back with us. We have been living together with his family since March of last year. Not super relevant, but just trying to explain the whole story lol.

My boyfriend accepted a new job and we are moving away this week to our new apartment. We are so excited for this❤️

However, my in laws are so extremely suffocating. We don’t have a great relationship because they treat my daughter like she’s theirs. They are helping us move and leaving on April 28th. They are already talking about coming back at the end of May. I personally think that a once a month visit is just too much. We really need to separation from them for a while. They are just so emotional right now, which is understandable, so I don’t want to bring it up to them right now. I don’t really know why I’m posting this lol. I guess just to vent. The worst part is that they didn’t even ask if they could come, they just said “we are planning on coming back at the end of May” like wtf, who gave you permission to do that? Lol