Taking the blame

Does anybody have a SO who blames you for anything that happens to the kids?? I am feeling so frustrated by this. Ever since my daughter was a newborn anything to happen to her is my fault! She trips outside and I get shit for it. It’s like he expects me to keep her in a bubble or something??

We’ve discovered she has cavities and guess who’s fault it is? In his eyes, it’s mine. I shouldn’t give her a treat here even when he says it’s okay for her to have something!! Like wtf. I have terrible mom guilt and he makes it absolutely worse. It sucks. Just needed to get this out there.

Feeling like a shitty mom tonight