Natural conception

I’ve been TTC for 4 years.. with my husband, but neither of us has ever been diagnosed with anything.. but I strongly feel like I’m the problem.. and this has always been something I felt since before I even ever slept with someone, but as much as I long to be a mother.. I don’t want any help conceiving, I want it to happen the most natural way possible & I know there’s so many alternative options other than being poked and prodded around with, I just really wanna do everything I can to convince naturally first & leave the doctors help as a complete last resort

I do hear a lot of really inspiring stories.. especially on this app.. but whats your opinions.. Is this too unrealistic? Do yall think I’m being stupid??