I got a bit upset the week before my 20 week ultrasound. I had someone say my belly was too small for 20 weeks and that I should check if something was wrong and that I had to start eating more if I want baby to grow (I’m seriously eating as much as I can!).

But, I had my 20 week scan and the doctor said everything is perfectly to size as she should be at this point, so it really shows that belly size means nothing and people’s comments are more toxic than helpful whether they mean it to be or not.