In laws😅

Does anyone else’s husband/boyfriends side of the family just bug you??? Since my daughter has been born they do not respect what I want to do with my daughter and never ask about how she is doing but expect me to leave her with them? They never make time to visit us we only live an hour and half from them but expect us come on the weekends. I just need to vent and know I’m not the only one feeling like this 😅 I wish they were different I would love to have a close relationship but everytime I try and make an effort they do something to disrespect me. 😐