So no judgment please. My boyfriend and me have been together almost 3 years we have a 6 month old son and he used to just smoke weed but before I had my son he started going to his brothers and he would come back and be up for 48 hours and would never tell me what he was on. It started out being only 1 time a month and then every week now sometimes 2 times a week. I’m pregnant again with a girl. And I’m asking for help. I don’t do any drugs I used to smoke weed before I got pregnant with my son but what do I do. I can’t handle it anymore with my sons father I’m basically a single parent and I do everything but when he does the drugs he acts all nice and helps but I don’t want it around my son, he never does it at our house. always at his brothers and I’m never there or the baby but I think it’s meth. Do I get him help? I said something about it to his parents but they seem to not care because yes he’s adult but damn I would still be beating my kids ass and taking them to get help. Should I leave him? I love him I do but this isn’t the man I had a child with anymore... I feel horrible for my baby a feel like he deserves better. So I guess the question is do I leave? Get him away from my child before it gets really bad? Or should I get him help? And if so how? Because he doesn’t see a problem in it. I gave him ultimatums before that if he didn’t stop he wouldn’t be see his son anymore and I would leave but he doesn’t care. Please help.