Would you find this disrespectful?

Question

My husband works in a shop, with about 15 other men. My FIL also works there as well. Recently, I found out that my husband shares specific details about our sex life. I don’t mean vague things. I mean he goes into detail. He says they all do it up there and he’s never said things like that around his dad. My thing is, if they all do it, I’m sure it’s been mentioned around him or to him by someone else. It’s not just my FIL works there, but I just find it disrespectful, that my husband would share such intimate details about our sex life.

Accepted Answer

I’ve never heard of this being a thing with men at work. Most men are private about this kind of thing. My husband works with all men and would never speak on a subject like this with coworkers, nor have the other men. They may speak about fishing, cars, and sports but not sex, etc. 😳🤦‍♀️

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My husband admitted that he’s “bragged” about getting laid the night before to his coworkers or says things like “I’m gonna get me some tonight” and they say it too. I’ve worked a job where I was the only female there and I’ve overheard conversations about the same. But I’ve never heard someone share details and don’t see my husband doing it either.

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Personally I don’t really care what my husband says to other men when they all talk about that stuff. I know when me and my girl friends talk we get on the subject of sex sometimes. But it’s all what you’re comfortable with and he shouldn’t cross that line.

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I know my husband when he was in trades school for the second term so they were all working men not young guys they had a group chat and it turned inti sending hot girl pics...never partners though. And i know at work they do talk about sex. I think just like girls gossiping with their girls guys do it too. However beagging about explicit things u di especially if fil might hear is crossing a line.

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Yeah... no... I’d honestly feel violated. Unless he’s asking for advice then okay I can kinda understand but even then he would take to google and reddit first lol. But everything else? That’s between him and I only - our intimacy is for US not everyone else

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I wouldn't find it disrespectful,  but I know my hubby and he wouldn't talk about our sex life to anyone,  he's just a naturally private person that way.  
At my work,  we talk about our sex lives all the time,  there realy isn't any subject that's off limits.  
It all depends on what boundaries and limitations you and your partner have set.

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This is so immature. Just because the guys he works with have zero class doesn’t mean he needs to.

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I know people get crass all day long, men and women, but there’s something to be said for the mystery and classiness of not kissing and telling. I know so many intimate details about all of my friends’ sex lives with their boyfriends/husbands and honestly I find it tacky that they spread their intimate business around. Their men would be absolutely mortified to know the things they’re telling me (and god knows who else) too... 
I’ve never once talked about the sex my husband and I have and I have no desire to. My husband doesn’t either.

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i’d leave him immediately because i have specifically told him that isn’t ok to talk about with ANYONE

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My husband would NEVER but he’s also a really private person. The furthest he might go is to say he got some but we have sex almost daily so there would be no point in repeating himself everyday 😂 sharing details crosses a line & you need to confront your husband. I think my husband and I have amazing sex but I don’t brag to other people 🤷🏽‍♀️

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