my fiancé and i finally got up the courage (and money) to go buy sex toys for the first time recently. we’ve talked and joked about it but it never became a serious discussion until i suggested we buy something and he took me to the sex isle the next time we went shopping. we bought lube for the first time (never felt like it was NEEDED but just wanted) and we bought a bullet vibrator yesterday. we both reallllyyy liked it a lot but it felt more like i was getting pleasure than him plus it was hard to use while he was already in me so we tried just setting it on top by my clit but he said it felt like his bladder was vibrating and it kept slipping with the lube so today we went out and bought a vibrating cock ring and plan to try it tonight soon but what else could we try as a couple to maximize the pleasure for both us as that is super important to us!?