I've been with my girlfriend for 2 years and for the past year I've been having an attraction to men. I guess I wouldn't say only a year. I thinks always been there. I just never really excepted it. I still love her and care for her very much. But I don't really know who I am. IDK it I'm gay or bi.... I'm confused. I didn't cheat on her or anything. I just came clean about how I was feeling. And broke up with her... She's convinced I broke up with her for a guy but there's no guy. I'm not even talking to any guys. I just need to find out who the hell I am. I'm 23 and I guess I thought when I hit adulthood I would have who I am figured out but I don't. Maybe with some time I will. I never wanted to break her heart. I'm just tires of the suffocating feeling of not knowing who I am. I just hope in time I figure it out