My boyfriend and his friends love to say that I complain too much when in reality I'm just venting so I can get so much stuff off my chest that I hold in. I love my boyfriend so much even together for a year and almost a month now but I dont know what to do? I honestly hate that he turned on and says we can cleaning is why all my exes cheated on me and broke up with me. He says if I try to stop complain too much then we don't fight as much. Even continues to say that "if I want the future Isles always talk about with him then I really have to try to stop complaining so goddamn much". When I try to stop complaining he sits there and get mad at me when I don't tell him what's wrong.