Do men view women differently after giving birth?

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What do you think about this? 
I’ve heard by a few people that when your man gets to see the physical birth of the child the man will start to view you more as a tool than intimate. I’ve been told if I wanted to save my sex life don’t let him see the main event! I have a few friends that say yes and no. I think it’s a beautiful thing to witness. But I can also understand how it can definitely freak a guy out!

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I have literally never heard this from any of my friends. My husband was grossed out, but he was over it just fine by 6 weeks post partum.

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Pretty sure mine thinks I’m a god now.

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I think it depends on the guy, my husband watch it and even saw me poop with every single push and we’ve been more intimate than before, he says seeing what I went through to bring our baby here makes me more attractive in his eyes

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Well I've had 5 that he watched me birth and my man still thinks I'm sexy. Don't listen to other people...trust your partner and communicate with him.

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I tore pretty badly during my birth, and my fiancé saw me poop multiple times and even helped the nurses wipe it away (I had an epidural so I couldn’t tell) but even after all of that grossness during childbirth he still calls me sexy, and is constantly handsy with me lol. He loves touching me and I love touching him, he’s constantly praising my body and what it went through. We’ve been waiting to have sex until my birth control kicks in officially (we just got the all clear for sex last week) but we do talk a lot about how it’ll be amazing when we do finally have real sex again. I think it all depends on what kind of guy you have. All in all, in my experience I wouldn’t be too worried. If you have enough love and trust in your relationship I don’t think he’ll care too much. My fiancé was just worried about my pain during childbirth. Not so much the gross aspects.

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My husband saw everything. He was pretty grossed out watching what was happening in the moment, but definitely saw me as a new woman after having our son. He made me feel so beautiful after having our son. He told me I was so strong and incredible. He’s never once made me feel ugly for my mom body. Definitely made things more passionate in the bedroom. He took on a new appreciation for my body 😭 Any man who views a woman in a negative light after giving birth are sad 😂🤷🏻‍♀️

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Depends on the man.

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My husband saw everything with each birth and has been fine.

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Sometimes yes. But not always just from seeing the birth- but from your changing role from his partner to a mother. People do see mother's differently, and a partner's perception can change after having kids together. 
This can be positive and negative... one never knows. And it is common for your sex life to change after children, as well as through life in general.

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Yeah no, my husband thought it was amazing and he thinks I’m even more beautiful now.

Do men view women differently after giving birth?

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