Any babies with FOUR names?
I cried so hard at the hospital.
I’m in the middle of a divorce and my husband wasn’t there during the whole pregnancy
( he moved back with his mom when I filed for divorce after catching him sleeping with other women while I was pregnant )
He hated every name I had.
He told me absolutely no.
Her last name had to be his he said
So on and so forth so literally at the hospital day 4 last day I was bawling my eyes out.
I absolutely love her name I think we compromised fairly well. ( he wasn’t even there she’s 5 months and still hasn’t even met her.. )
But her middle name has my last name and then his last name for her actual last name so example
Mary Ann Smith ( my maiden last name ) Bell ( his last name ) these are random names but for the example
I wanted her to have my last name in there because if I get married again I’m going to keep my last name and just add on to my name so she knows she connected somewhere. Mostly if her dad isn’t around.
Do y’all think this was a good idea? You think she’ll hate me over this? I love the idea and I love her name I’m just scared she’s gonna be like 4 names?!
And I also feel so bad for not naming her after my parents/grandparents but of course not he wouldn’t let me ( I could of named her anything I wanted but I would of felt horrible ) when I say I was bawling under pressure and stress my blood pressure was so high they were gonna keep me plus I had a sick newborn so that made things even more stressful for me.
He caused so much stress during my pregnancy the doctor told me to stop contact. He was controlling as hell and I let him?! Ugh how did this become a rant post I’m asking about her name.
I need therapy lol
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