Am I wrong?

I need to vent a little and ask a question......

So my aunt (let's call her Nicole) wanted to see my daughter, shes only seen her once since born and I said alright. I told her my uncles 1st wife's daughter (Lets call her lady bug, so I remember, nickname) couldn't come. (He has a thing where he takes care of everyone's child like his own, he pays child support on her, but hey let's not forget her mom got under the table child support from her real dad because she is scum) well, anyways, I didnt want her there because she wrecked my uncles truck in a pole, well its still drivable but Nicoles kids were in the car. But my aunt (Nicole) didnt want her driving with her children in the car, so AS A NICE PERSON, I asked her to come without Ladybug because I needed to tell her something and also to not have a lot of people as I dont have much seating in my new apartment. Well NICOLE has the audacity to call MY BLOOD RELATED FAMILY that I was being nasty and not inviting Ladybug to my new apartment, and so I guess now she's trying to start mess. Well my mom texts me, I woke up at 10:30 pm to a message basically saying treat people how you want to be treated, and all the BS if I was being rude, which I understand. But Nicole I guess fabricated a whole story.... lesson has been learned I need to record the conversations for collateral, and also go back down to being only my bf, sister, and my daughter and I. Because apparently people want to be nosey britches.