Breakup because of No Creampie Rule

My bf and I have been dating for a year. I’ve been on birth control since February. When I got on bc, I told my bf that I wouldn’t mind us getting tested so we can have sex without a condom, but I still wanted him to pull out to really decrease our chances of pregnancy (we both just turned 19 and are in college, so we can’t afford to have a child). He was cool with it. In the past, he’s also told me he wanted to try anal which I said no about. This is a very hard limit for me.

Well for the past couple weeks, he’s been begging to creampie me and told me he doesn’t understand why I got on birth control if he can’t cum in me. He said it in a way that kind of suggesting I may be cheating on him. We talked yesterday and he literally said this, “You’re either going to do anal or you’re going to let me creampie you. You’re not satisfying me and then you’ll be mad when I leave you for someone better.” Then left the room and I eventually told him to leave. He texted me later apologizing but I still feel horrible. What should I do? Advice?