Staying with my husband after his affair

I am only looking for women who have stayed with their husbands after an affair. How did you do it? Was it worth it? How did you move on? Are kids involved? I do not want anyone’s opinions on how I should leave please. I have two boys age 1&2.

ETA: I’m not staying with him. So advice on leaving instead I suppose 😂 I’ve been a stay at home mom since November 2019 (at his request but also because I wanted to). So far he says that for now he will pay for the mortgage for his children so we will see.