How the hell do I break up with him???

Question

I'm 7 weeks pregnant and have a 1 year old. I'm severely unhappy and depressed. I picked the wrong guy we just argue and fight too much. I love him but unfortunately it's not enough to put up with this shit. We've been together 3 years.
I mean how the hell am I going to get my own place and move with two children??? I got myself this flat through the council but he moved in from day one. It's in my name though. 
I seriously am such a happier person before things got this bad, he is also unhappy. I never thought I'd want to leave him but life is tooo short of wasting time on a relationship that is toxic. 
My main concern right now is the living situation, I mean I don't want to see him on the streets but also this needs to end ASAP before it effects the children. I need to get out of here without him. We live in a one bedroom flat, that would be good for him to stay here as much as I hate him.

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It’s your place and under your name before being with him. Kick him out and where he ends up isn’t your problem. He’s an adult and can figure it out. You and your children come first. I don’t see what this is a question, it’s your flat, get rid of him.

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it's your place you have every right to live there and if things with you guys aren't working anymore, I think the best thing is to ask him to leave. You deserve to be happy and he does too. Good luck 🤞🏽

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If it’s in your name you need to tell him to leave, he has to right to be there. 
I wouldn’t be worrying about him he will sort himself out. You need to prioritise you and your children

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As it’s your place it seems right that he should leave? Could you help him find somewhere to rent, a flatshare or something (assuming he works and has the money?)
Alternatively speak to the council as it sounds like you’ll need a bigger place yourself.

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Go to the local council and discuss your situation. You will need to apply for housing again but they will tell you what type of properties that will be available, most likely 2 bedrooms. My local council do a bidding system for housing and you can bid on 3 properties a week. You get more points if you have certain needs. I also suggest that you talk to citizens advice and local women’s refuges both can help get you out of that situation and help with furniture for a new place.

How the hell do I break up with him???

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