Addicted to shopping becoming a big issue

Anyone a recovering shopping addict? For years I've been a shopping addict and never had control over my money. I always felt good while shopping and getting new things then I have a habit of throwing them away or donating after a few uses especially with clothes. Also food has gone waste in my home a lot too. I hate being this way because my husband and I both want to buy a new car one day and a house. My credit is all screwed up from my spending habits and we still need to save a lot of money before we make these big moves. Anyone have any tips on self control or ways to organize money? I want to be money smart and need to control myself for a better future. My husband's habits are worse than mine so he gives me his paychecks to manage everything. I am the most responsible between him and I but I still don't feel like I am in full control because of my habits. I am also going to make an appointment with a therapist for my mental health also.