He thinks it should be when he wants

I’m sick and tired of my husband and when it comes to sex......it’s ALWAYS when he wants sex and if I say no I’m not in the mood for tired he starts and argument and that but if I try to initiate sex or anything it’s no I’m tired I worked all day (Side note he works 3 days a week only) and when he’s home he’s sitting outside if it’s nice and bringing beer or watching sports on the tv but working all day for him but no when I say I’m tired he bitches and says from what you don’t have a job cuz you know getting kids up dressed and to school coming back home to clean, do laundry, take the dog for a walk and cook dinner isn’t a job at all.

I have tried talking to him about it but he don’t listen at all.