How do you ride?

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I’ve been with my husband for almost 10 years and I struggle with reaching orgasm thru penetration even after oral sex (which he is amazing at btw). I know I have gotten close during sex to climax but I feel like I just need a.) a little more time and b.) to figure out the best position to be in
I know a lot of women prefer to be on top so they can finish first, but honestly.....I fucking hate it. It just doesn’t feel good to me, compared to how it feels when he’s in control. Its like I can’t get enough “oomph” behind my hips to get the same friction and deep ness so to speak. And if I squat on it instead it’s like i only feel him bumping my cervix and nothing else 🙄 So help me out ladies....do you prefer to ride and if so describe to me what technique feels best to you?

Accepted Answer

It’s not my favorite but I love it at the same time. I just grind my hips, best way to explain. Back and forth motions never letting it come out. Once I put my feet kind of under his legs I get more traction I guess. Sometimes he grabs my hips or butt and guides my speed, I love that cause when he lets go I just continue that same rhythm. And because I’m on top and have control I just move my hips around in order to get that D to hit all my “walls” lmao, you’ll feel it, once I hit all the corners I just keep going until I finish, then he says “Okay it’s my turn, turn over” it took me a while to feel confident though. You almost gotta be selfish when you’re riding, do what feels the best for YOU, idk maybe it’s just me. Hope this helped

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I'm not very good a riding either because my legs get tired and he tends to slip out because I get extremely wet...but I have tried not rele moving up and down but front to back and he will buck up to go deeper into me and it feels fantastic not to mention I have the same problem with reaching an orgsim with penetration and he will rub my clit while we move and it makes all the difference even if u do it or even try a vibrator while u do it 😉

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Riding is the only way I can reach the big O. Basically what I do is body rolls if you know what that is. It also helps me sometimes to lean forward just a bit.

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My favorite sex is couch sex. Idk, it may just feel dirtier or something, but my husband will be sitting on the couch and then I just face him and jump on his lap and we make out and then I ride him in that sitting position...it is the best angle when I grind up on him. 10/10 recomend!

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Get on top and have your man sit up a little bit until it feels good and is in the perfect spot! I cum so quick every time

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I like riding, it gives me the best chance of orgasming.
The gif one comment posted is the best for describing the technique 😉 but I also like it if he guides me and gives me more impact through that it holds my hips and slams up.
Other positions that help me reach orgasm is him on top and my legs on his shoulders.
Otherwise from behind but with hand action in addition to it

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I do on top but in order to feel the same deepness you’ll feel if he were on top is to do “reverse cowgirl” so basically he’s laying down, you’re on top but with your back facing him and you can hold on to his knees or whatever you choose to guide you and to help you grind on it

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I dont come from riding either. I get way too tired lol im fat. Im just reading tips and stuff from this thread.

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just move your hips all around, not bouncing or moving up and down just move your hips and you’ll feel your spot being touched. spell your name or spell I love you or something you’ll definitely reach orgasm. kind of bounce from time to time as well bc tell when we do that they don’t get the full penetration lol

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I love being on top but I also like when my husband takes charge and fucks me but... I don’t really cum from that only certain positions so I usually prefer on top and we can flip for the remaining time after I orgasm but I like being on top and sitting in the w position and then I lean forward and rest my hands on the bed/pillow on either side of his head and I slide back and forth rubbing my clit on his pelvic bone and he can suck on my nipples and boom I cum within 5 minutes 🤷‍♀️ this is a very slow movement for me and if I go to fast or he moves me to fast sometimes I have to start over 🤷‍♀️ (also this was before pregnancy I’m currently pregnant so this position gives me contractions so I have to sit up straight which is a lot harder to reach climax and sometimes I have to reach it by gspot stimulation so making it flick idk it’s rough and I’m ready to be able to cum like normal again but I’m thankful I found ways around it because at first I was just lost and my husband would have to make me cum orally and then we would have sex

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