What do men truly want

A man in a relationship in a monogamous relationship what do they want?

Growing up I admit I watched Disney and saw that Prince &Princess or even those movies like Ghost and Dirty Dancing I could see this romantic connection.

Now seeing the notebook as a woman that's the kind of love. You know you meet a man and have that connection get married.

But why are there many men that feel trapped in marriages?

I feel like marriage isn't a mans happiness but a duty and it's sad I'd like for more men to want to get married more men to want that person to live rest of days with.

What do you think men would like in a marriage in a wife.