Feel so depressed

Melissa
After 4 yrs TTC with one MC and a suspected MC I feel there is no hope anymore. This trying to conceive is overtaking every aspect of my life. I so wish I could just wave a wand and get a BFP. Everyone keeps telling me not to stress as it affects fertility but it's easier said than done. I feel useless, less of a woman and a failure to my partner who is getting older and wants a child just as much as I do. Is there anyone who has miracle tips/advice? I've tried loads but anything is welcome. So so down about this 😢