Using pull out method & not having any period symptoms even though period starts this Friday :)

let me start by saying , I’m only posting this here because I have no one to ask , not my mom , aunts , or sisters ( too young ) or friends . I might just be paranoid . I’m turning 20 next month & he’s 21

A few months ago I started talking to this guy , a few weeks ago we started dating .. before I continue he knows im not on birth control & I won’t be on birth control if I don’t need it yk , I don’t have anything against it & he doesn’t like birth control bc he thinks it damages the body .

on May 11th was our first time doing the deed with protection bc I told him , we went two rounds ( he came both times ) .. On May 13th first round we used protection bc I told him, second round he didn’t want to bc it “hurts & uncomfortable” so he asked if he can try raw and I was like why not ( atm I did not care ) & he pulled out

May 21st we did it again , two rounds , no protection & the pull out method. I felt safe bc he seems like he knows what he’s doing and pulls out on time .

Well Yesterday May 25th . We did it again but 3 rounds ( he came after each one & pulled out ) but the third one I feel like he was caught up in the moment and was about to cum inside of me and then realized and pulled out . I mean he was getting tired bc he knocked right out as soon as he laid down but that’s not an excuse .

Well I’m supposed to be getting my period this Friday & usually the week before I have my regular period symptoms but im not having any single one & that is what has me paranoid . I’m also trying not to stress bc that can also delay my period :/ . I looked up I should test after a missed period .

Clearly im asking bc I’m not sure how effective the pull out method is & it seems that he likes sex a lot & he likes it raw which means I might just have to get birth control or he’s gonna have to put on condoms bc I don’t want to have to worry every month if ima get my period . Please don’t bash me , I’m not looking for any rude comments.

Since I have not had my period symptoms could there be a chance I’m pregnant? It’s literally been two weeks ? I also don’t have any pregnancy symptoms so I don’t think I am but I could never know until I get my period .

Also how effective is the pull out method? I know the condom is the most effective + birth control if taken right .

Another question is he cums every time we have had sex and I can never seem to orgasm he tries while he’s inside me to rub my clit and it’s like I’m almost there but nothing happens . Why is that ?

Also I haven’t had sex since like 2017 I’m like basically new to everything .he is my 3rd sex partner( first one sucked and my second person I bled with ) & He’s the first person to eat me out and slowly without him knowing he’s teaching me to be confident with my body . Especially when it comes to him eating me out , I still get kinda nervous but yesterday was way better then the first two times & giving him a bj. I would do it with the blanket over me and yesterday I did it without and let him look at me. Also any tips on how to ride ? Every time I’m on top I go up and down while my hands or near his head if that makes sense . I’m saying all this bc I have no one else to say it too so why not say it to y’all . Sorry about that and thank you for reading this far .