All he cares about is money

My boyfriend and I have been in a serious relationship for 4 years (live together for more than 3.5years). Both aged 23. Anyway, all he cares about is his career and money.

It started out small, he was a university student (IT) when we first started dating and he took his first ever full time job. Before that he used to do side jobs from home. He has since found himself a better job, and opened up his own company (which is now doing super well). He has been working 2 jobs full time for the past 1 year. Constant raises and promotions.

And I feel neglected, left out, unimportant and like I'm missing out on everything.

So I asked him where does he see himself in 5 years. He tells me his career goals. I ask him well, how do you see yourself in 5 years. He tells me successful. So I ask him if he has anything he wants to achieve in 5 years? He again tells me his career goals. So I ask him well anything else? Is there anything else you want to do/experience in those 5 years? And he sais no. So I start asking him is there anything you want to do in your life other than work? No. Of course not. I plan on working until the day I die, I could never retire.

So I continue asking like how about a place to visit? No not really. Anything at all? Not that I can think of. Any food you want to try? Nope.

We used to have friends (his friends also couples) which we used to go out with. Now they are his clients. So ... he only talks business with them and aparently doesn't have enough time to care about their personal lives. So bye bye social life. All of my friends sadly live in different countries and we barely see eachother once a year when they visit.

We have talked about marriage and children many times, always agreed on the age - within 3 to 5 years from now, and we have always agreed on me being a stay at home mom while he works. Now that I think about it, he will never be there. He barely cares about anything other than his job, his company, his success, the money.

Whenever I ask him his plans or his passions or anything it's always job job job. He doesn't even think about anything esle unless I bring it up and it's always at best his 2nd priority.

He is never excited about anything. always working always thinking about work.

We haven't had sex in over a year. I give him blowjobs to help him feel relaxed almost daily, but he is too tired to EVER return the favor. We stopped having sex because he was always rushing it and I hated feeling left out (it wasn't like this at the begging, it started once he started working).

And it's even worse on holidays. All he does is demand blowjobs. Or talks about work.

I am having second thoughts about everything.