Before my husband and I got married we talked about kids and both agreed on 2!

Just had our first 9 months ago. I know it’s early and she’s still so young, but I just feel in my gut that I don’t think I want any more kids.

My patients has gotten lower and I know I wouldn’t be able to handle 2.

We also couldn’t afford a second baby and don’t have enough room in our house for another baby.

So I was honest with my husband today and told him how I was feeling. I told him there is always a chance I could change my mind when she’s older, but that it’s something that’s been on my mind and bothering me lately.

All he said back was that my reasons for not wanting another baby were ridiculous and that it sounds like I need to work on personally growth and change my attitude.

I was so put off by his response that I haven’t said more than a couple words to him since then!

Am I just being sensitive and he’s right? Or would you be upset too?