I met my boyfriend and got pregnant within 1 month of knowing him, the same month the mother of kids relocated out of town and was pregnant with their 4th child in another state.

I moved in with him and his 3 kids shortly after I got pregnant and now I’m 4 months along.

She relocated back to the same state as us and he met up with her and told her that he’s still in love with her and always will be but they can never be together. He calls her his yin yang and wants to best friends with her. They have had a crazy relationship for 9 years.

He went to meet his child for the first time recently and they ended up having sex. He says that she initiated and puts the blame on her and how he didn’t want to do it.

Is our relationship heading for disaster, did we move too fast? Can we survive as a couple?