How to chill out?!

Question

So I found out stupid early at 9DPO ! I’m 3 weeks 4 days and stressed. I just don’t believe it I guess. Everyday I creep closer to expected period date I’m worried that it’ll show and this never happened. But I have clear positives!! 
I have a healthy 10 month old and my pregnancy with her was normal and I found out at 4 weeks like usual! Idk why I feel so nervous.

Answer

I understand! Sorry this is long! 
I have 3 kids and I had my first miscarriage in December. I went in at 8w and baby measured 6w with no heartbeat. I had what’s called a missed miscarriage where my body didn’t realize baby wasn’t alive. It was so hard.     
Thankfully I did conceive 6 weeks after my miscarriage and I am now 19 weeks with healthy baby #4 (technically 5). For the first few weeks I could not relax! I felt so nervous and kept thinking about my miscarriage. I took 20+ pregnancy tests to make sure the lines got darker and I almost cancelled my first scan. I’m so glad I went. The minute I saw my baby’s heartbeat we bawled. I then told myself to trust my body and baby. Our bodies are made for this and if baby is meant to be here they will be. If a miscarriage is going to happen I would much rather it happened early on because most likely it was due to a chromosomal abnormality. I’m glad my body took care of my miscarriage because baby wasn’t compatible with life. It also gave me a new respect for the baby I’m growing now. 
Trust that your baby is growing. I take bump photos every week and relish every moment that I am carrying this precious life. Try to enjoy every minute because it goes so fast. I can’t believe I’m already 19 weeks! I know I can’t help you relax but I hope maybe this will help a little ❤️

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