TW. Loss mentioned.

I have had 3 previous losses in the past two years and I can not get anyone to take me seriously. Every OB I have tried to see won’t see me any earlier than 8 weeks, will not do a scan until 10 weeks and refuses to do labs to make sure my levels are rising. I feel so defeated I want to fucking scream. 😭

I just want to know if everything is okay.

Update:

Let me tell y’all how close I am to losing my shit on my new OB and my PCP over all of this garbage.... even with the 3 losses under me, the OB still refuses to see me sooner than 8 weeks. I am a new patient so I won’t be an “established” patient until after the first appointment, so they are refusing to do labs to make sure my levels are rising because I’m not established with them yet, and told me to go to my primary to get them ordered. My primary refuses to do the labs for me because I need to “Go to your OB for OB labs”.... what the fuck do these people not understand? The genuine lack of care for me and my concerns is mind blowing and I’m ready to come unglued on everyone.

My last ditch effort is to call the OB I used last pregnancy to get labs ordered at the very least (they won’t even see me till 12 weeks)... of course they’re 2 hours away and I’ll have to travel far to get the labs done but I don’t care what it takes at this point.

I’ve been in Texas a year and a half and not once have I been taken seriously with a pregnancy. It’s been an all around fuckin’ joke.