So I know I’m not the lightest down there and have a bit of an outtie and it just looks like a normal vagina. It’s not pink on the lips and it doesn’t have to be. Anyway, my husband said maybe I should do laser to lighten it (I’m not even that dark 😑) and I said people get labiaplasty to just remove any extra lips and it obv removes the dark color. I just feel insecure because Its always been kinda bothered by it but no guy has ever said anything until my husband (just married) a part of me is happy to be getting the change I’ve always wanted anf the other part is hurt because he brings it up often and it’s like ok... I get it! I already agreed so I don’t know why you bring it up more than once a week. He said he’d pay for it but seems more excited than me to do it. It just kind of hurts. I don’t know how to feel honestly. I just think he could be a little insensitive when he expressed himself even though he means well.