Any advice with this family issue I have

My boyfriend and I renovated our new place(painting, fixing up holes, etc) and were in our early twenties. My in laws helped us. When I told my parents that I was moving into my own house its like they were disappointed or something, no emotion just seemed like they didn’t care(I haven’t lived with them for a long time) and I’m really upset about that. My boyfriends parents were more than happy to offer to help and my parents haven’t even called to ask how its going. It makes me upset that my boyfriend family is so wonderful but mine can careless. I asked them days in advance if I could use their truck to bring things and if they could disarm my bed that I still had there and when I called to get the truck they were like oh sorry I forgot the truck is getting new tires today and I forgot to do to take apart the bed and I was hurt because I just needed a favor and I always do things for them and when I say always I mean always I break my back for them and they couldn’t do this simple thing for me and I feel really separated from them right more than I ever have before. My whole life I’ve been doing stuff on my own because no one ever helped me do anything and just the one time I needed my parents to do me a favor, they couldn’t and maybe I shouldn’t even of asked if I already knew the outcome I just thought naively. I guess they didn’t have to help me if they didn’t want to but I just expected more, like they’re my parents come on. Am I being dumb or immature about this? Maybe I’m being dramatic