Serious sleeping anxiety

Makenzie

So, I have a 15 month old rn that has been sleeping half in her crib at night & half in our bed. Now that I’m expecting baby #2 in January, I want my daughter to sleep in her own bed. But the problem is me. The way my house is, her room is upstairs & ours is downstairs. I have serious anxiety about her being up there without me at night. Since she’s been old enough to sleep in her crib I have struggled keeping her up there due to my own anxiety. Once she wakes up in the middle of the night, I bring her down. Do any other moms struggle with this & have something similar going on? If so, how did you cope? How did it get better? My husband isn’t understanding how hard this is for me.