Okay, so after a recent breakup (I consider 3 months recent, mostly because it took me a while to get over it) I have started to flirt with other guys again. I met guys from the next town over, and they're all really cute and really nice. The thing is, now they all want to hangout with me, most likely try some other things while hanging out, and I don't know how to let them know that I'm not trying to be serious and committed to any of them. I just wanted to flirt again, after all this time that I spent sad and lonely over my exboyfriend, I gain confidence once again. Which seemed to attract new guys, and I'm trying to be friends with these guys (okay well maybe a little more than that) because I feel like a boss lady rn. I am independent and don't need a man. However, it's always nice to flirt. I guess what I need advice on, is how to let these guys know that I'm just trying to be a friend for now, and maybe build from their to becoming more than friends along the line. I'm exploring my options, and I shouldn't have to be limited to one person just now. What do you ladies think?