Phobia to moving things. People think I’m crazy 🤦‍♀️

So, I dont really know how to explain but I have a phobia to stuff swinging and moving. Like curtains in the wind, chandeliers, wind chimes etc etc. We have these light baloon chandeliers in our house and OMG they drive me freaking crazy when the windows are open 🤦‍♀️ I tell someone and they look at me thinking ‘yo whats wrong with you’. I can’t even put my kids on a swing at the park. I stand waaay back and avoid looking at them cause I get mad anxiety. Anyone know how I can get over this?