How to be more feminine??

Question

Hey ladies!! 
Most if my life I've been a tomboy, my dad never had a son and I was the 5 and final child of the family, so I got to be the "son my dad never had" lol. 
Until lately, I never realized how manly I am! I carry myself like a dude, I walk, talk, and act like a dude. I have learned to kind of dress more feminine over the past year.... Flowing dresses and looking on Pinterest for style inspo. I have started growing and painting my nails,  getting pedicures, accessorizing with jewelery, curling my hair and really amping up my makeup game. 
I really hate that I have manly features, I'm 5'8, I have huge feet, hands, broad shoulders, and large forehead. When I was 21 I gauged my ears out to 1" and still have ugly holes that I wish I never had. My hairline also looks manly to me, I can grow a little mustache and generally overall i feel like my testosterone levels are higher than my estrogen levels. I feel like a monster around petite women/girls. I feel like I stand out in a negative way. 
I want to be feminine and elegant and learn how to carry myself as such.

Answer

I am 5’9”, wear a size 11 shoe, have big hands and wide shoulders. I have strong Mediterranean features, not delicate at all, but I feel beautiful because I love how unique looking I am. Keep feminizing yourself and discovering what features you like so you can accentuate them. Oh and laser hair removal is my best friend. There’s a way around everything! 😋

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Since your appearance can change the way you perceive and carry yourself, changing your wardrobe and style can definitely have a big impact!
I have personally found barre amazing for instilling grace and elegance into regular movement that, for me at least, becomes habit in daily movements. 🩰
It could be useful to get your hormones looked at to see if there is an imbalance of estrogens and testosterone. Sipping spearmint tea daily can naturally help reduce testosterone levels. This won’t change your body’s shape as it’s already developed, but it might help with symptoms like excess hair, acne, weight loss resistance, and other symptoms of high testosterone. If levels have been high and they finally come into balance, you might find estrogen help you feel very... womanly lol for lack of a better term. Women with the ideal balance tend to feel confident, strong, have a sense of knowing the self, may feel their power as a woman, and they are loving & nurturing towards themselves and others 🥰

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I have broad shoulders and a big chest, my waist and hips are the same size. I ignore my hispanic mustache most days, though I did try laser hair removal at one point (to no avail).
 When I switched out of my tshirt/jeans phase and started wearing dresses, i found that flared, a-line skirts balanced my wide shape on top. Solid/dark colors on top paired with bright/patterned bottoms helped minimize my upper body and draw the eye away. 
I haven't done away with my gauges completely, but I did size down and start wearing more feminine styles, with natural stone or elegant dangling glass designs whenever I had an updo type event. I also have some extra piercings just above those holes, so I can use a nude plug and then wear regular cute dangling earrings to draw the eye away from the plugs.
I can't speak from personal experience about the feet, but my cousin is a size 9/10 and she wears a lot of chunky, thick strapped and open toe styles that I wish I could wear. Unfortunately, they don't work well with my tiny toes and they swallow my ankles making me look really cankle-y.
Sounds like you're on the right path to finding styles that work for you and make you feel confident. Just keep it up. Every woman has a handful of features she'd change about herself, so don't feel bad. None of us are perfect and we all have insecurities. One day we'll all be dried up prunes, rock what you got while you have it.

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