Feel let down by husband

Example: We’re TTC in a couple months. We agreed we’d both focus on our health for the next couple months which includes exercise, eating healthier, and no more processed meats. We had the discussion together and both agreed to follow the plan. TWICE in the past two weeks he ordered takeout with processed meat. I’d rather he not agree to do something at all, than agree and then not follow through. It’s hurtful and makes me feel like I can’t trust him.

I also have reminded him numerous times to make sure he turns down the noisemaker in our daughter’s room before bed. Literally the next day I went in to get her from her nap and it was blasting. I reminded him again and he had it blasting again two days later.

Those are just two examples of SO many. Things like this happen regularly with him. How would you feel and what would you do? I’m so frustrated and feel like I don’t have a partner who listens. I also feel like I can’t trust him after dealing with things like this for the past decade. Not a good feeling.