Never making it pass the talking stage...

Does anyone ever feel like they never make it to the dating stage.??? I have always been told how pretty I am, head on my shoulders, come off as classy, and not easy/promiscuous and I never make it to the would you be my gf stage... I have been asked to be a guys girlfriend a couple of times. Now a days I never make it pass the talking stage🥺 and I hate it because I try everything I can not to mess it up with whoever I’m talking too and like, but something always go wrong. I don’t wanna have the mindset that’s it’s me, but I can’t help it when majority of the guys I ever start to talk too we stop and he ghost me or tell me it’s not gonna work. It gets frustrating and you get worried that you would never find someone. I just wanna know what my flaw is and make them go away or lose interest like seriously..