I can’t tell if this is healthy or not???Relationship Advice???

I guess I’ll start off by saying that my partner is typically always upset with me

-made them mad by saying I had a nightmare when I first woke up which ruined their mood for the day

-made them jealous when I posted about an abusive and manipulative ex friend who had a crush on me (they refused to read anything past the ss of that ex friend flirting)

-made them annoyed and mad when I told them that the ex friend was the reason it took me so long to apologize to them for our last break up, they told me to leave them out of it

-made them mad when I would ask if they needed any space after they told me they were upset and they thought that meant I wasn’t interested in listening to their rant

-made them “unbelievably mad” (their words) when I told them that I wish I knew how to help them when they were upset and I guess they thought that meant I wasn’t interested in listening to their rant

-upset them because I didn’t respond the way they wanted me to when they sent a cute video

-upset them because I didn’t sound enthusiastic enough about something they got

-left me on read all night because they thought I was ignoring them even though I answered everything they said asap but they ignored several of my texts

-got upset with me when I told them I wasn’t comfortable talking about (TRIGGER WARNING) they’re eating disorder because I’m also struggling

List of others things they’ve done

-made fun of my art and then blamed it on them not paying attention even though our conversation was about my art

-Ranted to me on several occasions without asking (which they told me I’m not allowed to do)

-During one of the rants they were talking about their ex friend and sent a ss of them saying something very nasty “You really shouldn’t p*ss me off,especially when you bullshit your way through conversations and try and be that good quiet and compliant child because it’s whats “easiest” to stop the yelling.”

-told me “I’m sorry that I upset you but if you’re going to say “I just wanted support from my partner” I want you to stop” because I was upset they were undermining my emotions about a situation (I honestly don’t know what the correct word is to use)

-^^^What really upset me about our recent fight is that they said “Why are you being like this?”

-^^^ -Told me what I was feeling which is kinda odd to me

“You’re mad”

Me: “No I’m not”

“You’re upset”

And my favorite

Them:“Well now I’m upset because you’re mad at me and ready to break up with me”

-Told me I’m not allowed to joke about my trauma and mental illness but they’re allowed

They’ve made several triggering comments

-Basically gave me a list of what I’m not allowed to do

-Every time I make a decision about something bad that happened all I get from them is “I don’t understand but okay.”

-Posted a pic of their friend and captioned it “on a date😌” which is really crossing boundaries here but was jealous when I talked about a manipulative friend who flirted with me

There’s more but I have a bad memory unfortunately.

I honestly don’t know what to do, I really like them and I feel like it would be rude to bring up the “on a date😌” thing up because we just got in a fight a couple days ago.

I also feel like it would be rude to cause more issues because they’ve bought me $200 worth of stuff (I didn’t ask for) and I don’t want them to think I’m using them.

We’ve only been together for two months and this is kind of upsetting because so much has happened in such a short amount of time.

It was hard for me to even write this down because I can’t get over those “this is the best I’ll ever get” and “this is what you deserve” thoughts.

What’s your guys opinion on the situation and what should I do?

Edit:

-They just posted another photo with their friend calling it a date

-I forgot that on our first date they constantly teased me for my height,asked me when my boobs were gonna grow in,and made fun of the size.

Edit 2:

-Now they’re mad because I try bonding with them by sharing that I’ve gone through similar situations or “make everything about me”