PLEASE BE GENTLE

After writing a post here, people got mad at me and anywho, i didnt made me feel good.

My husband and i talk about trying for kids soon but have not tried yet. I am SO scared of infertility its just something that scares me, im insecure about it since having kids by myself have always been my priority. I try to be as healthy as we can be but it both makes us anxious, any help/tips/tricks?

*again please dont come at me, Last time people told me i should not have kids or even think about having some because i have trouble dealing with this fear, it hurted me so much. People told me that i was ridiculous and that it doesnt make sense but for me it does.. please be respectful, im just looking for precious advice and comfort❤