Wanted to ask if all women usually shave down there before oral? I feel like that’s the deterrent from getting any oral from my man. We talked a little bit and found out that He’s also never really done it before and I’m his first (and his wife of 8 years, haha).

I’ve just had a conversation with my girlfriends this week about this. I feel like I’ve been missing out and all this is coming to light now that I need self love and take more of my needs into play when we have sex.

I feel embarrassed that I’m now just starting to ask him or talk about it. Any advice on shaving, oral, etc??